Hello Friends,
I’m back with my final blog within the finances, faith, and fidelity series. It’s been a pleasure to share on an amazing platform such as Sydnee Event Productions blog “Your Day and Beyond”!
Ladies, please remember that growing with your spouse can sometimes be a daunting task. Within marriage our beloved mates can say or do things that cause us to second guess their love for us.
I know, I’ve been there. When I’ve experienced marriage problems I’ve used a force much greater than my husband and I to “fix us.”
A force that allows me to feel at peace.
A force that allows me to state my needs, concerns and problems without feeling judged.
A force that allows me to feel comforted that my marriage will be okay.
A force that can give my marriage a greater security than I could ever imagine.
Prayer is my guiding force reflective of my faith. A long time ago I accepted that I’m imperfect, and can’t have solutions to issues out of my control. I had to trust God’s timing as he worked through my husband and I within our marriage. So, I had to find solace somewhere, and that place has been in the act of prayer.
Prayer allows me to release my worries, so I don’t become emotionally consumed with thoughts that drive me crazy. Using a 3-step combo for marital peace has been the most powerful tool to transform my husband and I’s relationship to deeper levels of intimacy—well beyond what I could have done. Of course I discuss this process more explicitly in my book, Miss to Mrs.: How Phenomenal Women Can Enjoy a Happy Marriage (click here to learn more: www.misstomrsbook.com), but what I’m describing is the powerful impact of prayer, meditation, and affirmations within a marriage.
Prayer is what I do to talk with God and ask for her grace and mercy, and share my struggles from my heart. Affirmations are self-soothing statements I use to remain focused and energized to face another day while mediation is used for reflections to hear God’s word.
Click below to listen to my guest interview on the Right to Real Love podcast show. I share detailed comments about the differences among prayer, meditation, and affirmations when it comes to love.
Get your headphones or earbuds and tune in! I’m sure you’ll find these tips helpful.
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